formspring.me #90

 

As in my favourite safeword out of all the ones i've ever used? Because i only have one, which is 'red' and was given to me by my Master.
Or my favourite safeword which i've ever heard about? Not sure really.... the idea of having something like 'you bastard!' as a safeword tickles me, but in reality i wouldn't be able to use it and it kind of deflects from the purpose of a safeword, which is to protect the sub from genuine harm. To read more about my thoughts on safewords, see here: http://libbysub.blogspot.co.uk/2007/01/safewords.html

You should post about your children in a clean blog so they can someday see what you've written about them without having to know about your sexual proclivities. Are you sure they are both of your husband's seed?

Firstly, how do you know i don't have other 'clean' blogs about my children? If i did/do i would hardly link to them here, would i?
Secondly, i have 3 children, but 2 of them are twins. And yes i am sure they are all Sir's (rather a rude question, btw) as i do not have any sexual partners except for Sir.

From reading your various blogs posts, I noticed that you are part of a high income household (i.e: £90 000+). Do you believe that your financial situation facilitates your lifestyle (e.g.: dungeon, array of toys, privacy from neighbours, etc)?

i'm not sure where you got the idea that we fall into that income bracket. i do not work and though Sir has a good job, i doubt He earns that much. Though to be honest, i don't actually know His salary. i hate talking about money, i find it quite a vulgar topic, but suffice it to say we are able to live a comfortable, though not lavish, lifestyle. By which i mean, if the kids need new shoes we can buy them without any bother, but if the washing-machine blows up we would need to tighten our belts a bit to be able to afford a new one.
As for whether Sir's salary has facilitated our lifestyle, i don't think it has apart from the fact that we are able to have a private 'dungeon' (not that we get the time to make much use of it these days) and we perhaps have a few more 'toys' than we would otherwise have. But to be honest i would still be just as much of a slave without these pieces of equipment, so i don't think money has that much effect on a M/s relationship.

Thank you so much for your posts. How can I subscribe to your blog?

There's a button in the sidebar for that.

I really like your blog, would you mind if I link to it?

Not at all, i love to be linked to! Also, for those of you out there who have your own blogs, please feel free to send me the link and i will check them out and possibly add them to my feeds or blogroll.

now that your boys are almost 2, and poppy starts pre-k, do you think you will have more kids?
That's something that Sir and i have thought about a lot as we always planned to have 4 children. And i am super broody for another baby after meeting little Oscar this weekend (my sister's new baby boy). The timing just isn't right at the moment, not to mention the fact that we wouldn't have enough time/energy/money to devote to a new little one right now. Poppy is fairly easy as kids go, but William needs a lot of time and attention and his therapies cost a lot of money, plus i'm always taking him to various appointments. Finn has just been diagnosed with ADHD so he needs additional support as well, and we just don't know what the immediate future holds for either of them. i would say that once the boys are in school too we can think seriously about whether to try for another baby or not.


Thanks for all the questions, more responses soon!